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There Will Be A Test

2010-12-11T06:20:00.001-08:00

Throughout my life, my father would say to me, “Pay attention – there will be a test.” Whether the lesson was how to drive, cook, shoot, change a tire – something I had to learn before I was allowed to drive a car – or the difference between a Philips or standard screwdriver, my father would snag my wandering attention by telling me, “Pay attention, there will be a test.” As someone who took school very seriously (what can I say? I’m a nerd) telling me that there would be a test ensured my complete, albeit anxious, attention.

Around the age of 19 or so, my father and I were in the garage and he was explaining to me how to use something – I honestly can’t remember if it was the air compressor or the welding equipment – and he said, “Pay attention – there will be a test.”

Being a bit of a pain in the butt during my teenage years, I said, “When? When’s the test? You’ve been telling me my whole life that there is going to be a test, but there never is!”

My father looked at me very calmly and said, “Life is the test.”

Then he walked rather smugly into the house.

On September 29, 2010 my father passed from this world into the next. The wonderful members of Soul’s Journey Lightworkers, SIACAP, SIPA, Daughters of the Sacred Torch, and many other loving and kind Reiki practitioners sent Reiki to help with his transition to the next world. My mother, who has worked as a hospice nurse for over 30 years said it was one of the most peaceful passings she had witnessed.

One of the great things about the spiritual community and Reiki community is their willingness to help those in need. The support and love this community has given to me has been immeasurable. I honestly believe that without this support, I would be dwelling on the death of my father instead of celebrating his life.

Going through all of the pictures of my father’s life, I realized how rich his life and ours had been. Trying to list all of the things my father taught me would turn into a book, but I can list some of the experiences I’ve had that I wouldn’t have had otherwise. Thanks to my father I’ve water skiied, snow skiied, bungee jumped, seen oceans and mountains, pet sharks, dolphins and many other animals, visited Europe, and much more.

Unlike many of my pagan brethren, I always had a very easy time of being Wiccan with my family, mainly due to my father’s open mind. When I first became Wiccan, he asked a lot of questions and even read several books – I think he was initially worried I’d joined some sort of cult, but he reserved his judgment until he had researched Wicca. After finishing one of the books he remarked on how it was very similar to how he had always believed. My father was very big on understanding what was going on first, then making a judgment call.

Part of why he was so open to my pagan path was his deep love of nature. Every spring, the first sunny and warm day after a rainfall, my family would go morel hunting. My parents would call off work, they would call us in sick for the day, and the whole family would go out into the woods to hunt for morels. It was always a rejuvenating and fun tradition.

Any time there was a turtle in the road, my dad would stop to save it. Something all three of his daughters still do to this day. As a matter of fact, I knew my husband was the man for me when I pulled over to the side of the road to save a turtle and instead of having to explain my actions to him, he just hopped out and escorted the turtle to the other side of a road.

Above all else, my father loved birds, especially birds of prey. He regularly gave donations to Treehouse, a wildlife rescue and rehabilitation charity in the River Bend area similar to our local Free Again. One of his favorite birds was the red tailed hawk. We would take various car trips and have contests to see which family member could spot the most hawks.

Lately, the hawks have been saying hello. The number of hawks that have been very conspicuous in my presence has really grown in the weeks since my father died. There was one that

even seemed to be waving at me, but my rational brain would insist that this was just wishful thinking. However, yesterday my younger sister and I were driving when my older sister called. We put her on speakerphone so we could all three talk, and that was when a huge hawk, lit almost golden by the sun, flew by us. In what was mere seconds later, my older sister saw a red tailed hawk fly by as well. This happy coincidence again occurred a few hours later when my older sister called and spoke with us again. My mother and younger sister recently bought a new vehicle and while test driving it together they wondered aloud if my father would like it and a red tailed hawk flew mere feet right over the vehicle, as if in approval. While I already believe quite firmly in the afterlife, the recent behavior of the hawks has really confirmed for me that the spirit does go on and after our loved ones have passed, they do find ways to say hi.

We were all very lucky to have my father in the world. He stopped for people on the side of the road, in winter he would pull cars out of ditches just to be nice, and he saved many, many turtles. He was a force of good in the world that will be sorely missed.

For every house repair, car repair, or other major decision in my life, I would call and talk to my dad. His approval and support, not to mention his vast knowledge, were always a comfort and a help. There have been many times recently where I think I should ask Dad about something, but unfortunately, I can’t. I keep thinking that life without him is really is the biggest test and I am glad that I was paying attention.

2010-08-29T18:58:00.000-07:00

The Woes of Mercury Retrograde

Have you ever had one of those days where nothing seemed to go right? The fax machine didn’t work, your email seems to be sending important messages to your spam filter, traffic seems much worse than it normally does, etc. These type of problems with communication and travel often occur during a Mercury retrograde phase.

When Mercury is in its retrograde phase, it is more difficult to communicate. Sometimes this is an issue of cell phones dropping calls or texts, or other electronic devices going haywire, sometimes it just means people aren’t listening or are misunderstanding what you are saying. You will see people online often behaving in a much more aggressive fashion during a Mercury retrograde period, as well.

As a tarot reader I tend to get more business during a retrograde phase because people often fight with significant others during this time period, have a difficulty with co-workers, or other problems that occur due to the energy of the retrograde. In addition, the retrograde time period is great for self evaluation and for understanding what is working and what isn’t working in your life, which is perfect for tarot readings.

Even with extra work coming in, I have always dreaded the Mercury retrograde period. I don’t like conflict all that much and it seems that Mercury going retrograde often causes all sorts of little squabbles to arise as people misconstrue or misunderstand what another person is saying. Sometimes though, these squabbles are necessary to clear the air. They help us to find solutions to our problems so that we may avoid future conflict.

One of the sites I frequent spoke of Mercury retrograde being a time to reflect, review, re-evaluate, or anything else that starts with an “re”. Time should be spent reviewing, returning to old issues, re-doing things that aren’t quite right, repairing broken items around the house and basically assimilating what we have learned and experienced since the last retrograde period. Mercury retrograde can be a pain in the neck, as so much of what we do every day involves communication or travel, but many times a little bit of forethought and planning can help to avoid most of these problems.

I’ve often heard it said that you should never start something new during a retrograde phase or that you shouldn’t sign contracts during the three week period of the retrograde. Most of these endeavors will fail to get off the ground. However, it seems to me that I always have great ideas for groups or other new projects that I want to try out during a Mercury retrograde. The ideas happen very fast during a retrograde, but the action has to be slower. Having a phenomenal idea during a retrograde period should be followed with re-evaluation of the idea, review of the plan, and generally should stay in the idea or mental stages. After the three weeks of the retrograde, you may then implement the idea without worrying that it was started during a retrograde phase.

The first weekend of May 2009, there were high winds that ripped through the area, killing thousands of trees, doing enormous amounts of property damage, and in one very memorable case, ripping the roof off of an apartment complex. This was also the first day of the Mercury retrograde. The results of the derecho, or “inland hurricane” as most people are calling it, typify the energies of the Mercury retrograde phase as streets were blocked off everywhere due to trees and downed powerlines, power was off to most homes for days to weeks, cell phones didn’t work right for several hours after the storm, and most people canceled their weekend plans to pick up the resultant mess.

However, while the derecho really was harmful to many of us, many of the trees that were downed had rotted out centers. While quite a few healthy trees perished, quite a few unhealthy trees also went down, clearing the way for new growth. Nature often does this type of clearing out – this time the heavy winds removed the very large but sick trees for the healthy ones to get greater access to sunlight and water.

During this storm, the roof blew off of a friend’s apartment building. She ended up having to move, missing a retreat she had helped organize, and missing days of work. It was a huge hassle as she dealt with her insurance (remember – renter’s insurance really can help you out of tough spot!), moved from her apartment and was briefly having to live with friends or family for a while. However, when she moved into her new apartment, she found that she was happier in the new location and the move itself kick started a period of growth for her that she may not have had otherwise. While she was furious and frustrated at the time, she did say months later that the storm ripping off her apartment building’s roof really did help her out in the long run.

While I still dread the retrograde phase of Mercury, I now see that there is a reason these energies swirl around us three times a year. Sometimes old issues must be cleared out so that we can move forward. I also think that a time of reflection and contemplation is a gift in many ways, if you utilize it properly. That said, I am still going to avoid driving anywhere unnecessary for a while.

After thought: Here is the link for one of my favorite sites about Mercury retrograde. It tells which days fall in the shadow period and which days are going to be the most chaotic. It is a really great guide and where I first read that anything that begins with “re” is what is done during a retrograde.

http://www.astroprofile.com/2010mercuryrx.htm

The year changes as the calendar year does – they will have a corresponding link.

Thanks!
Rev. Jennifer "Jay" Bull

Pursuing Happiness

2010-07-07T08:18:00.001-07:00

Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness!! Happy 4th of July!

I had a really great weekend over the 4^th of July. It was low-key and pleasant throughout the weekend, and I really had a great time visiting with my family. Fireworks were exciting as some of them seemed intent on setting us on fire, but that was fun too, in an adrenaline sort of way! Then, I took Tuesday off of all of my jobs, and Will and I went to the movies.

I *love* going to the movies. I love the theater, I love the whole experience, and I love previews. Overall, it was a really good day.

While out at my parents house, I went swimming with my sister and then my mom. I realized that I need to be out in the sun more. I think that being out in the sun helped make me happier – I have a vitamin D deficiency and when I was swimming my body was just so pleased with the sunlight. I have decided that every Monday when I visit them I am going to swim for at least an hour, out in the sun. It really does recharge my batteries.

Since I have had clinical depression since high school, I tend toward the negative in things, something I have fought hard against with low to middling results, but I get better at it every year. The past two years have been unusually rough ones, yet out of the rough times comes an even greater need to pursue my happiness. Otherwise, I may get lost in the unhappiness, and that would be bad.

Lately, my batteries have been pretty low and so has my mood. I’ve been working a lot – currently I have 4 jobs I am juggling, not counting HPing DST or any of the blogs I keep up with. I think I spent most of May and June just working and sleeping, and I’ve realized that this is no way to live. My epiphany this weekend was that I need to actively pursue my own happiness and I have to have one day off from everything a week.

With the goal of pursuing my own happiness in mind, I’ve decided that on Tuesdays I am going to unplug my phone, hang out with Will, and go to the movies. The movies are fun for me, and I am always disappointed that I don’t see more movies in the theater. Well, that is easy enough to change by simply going more often. Yesterday we went to see the A-Team, which was cheesy good fun just like the tv series and very enjoyable. As Will said, in the previews they showed them flying a tank and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about the movie.

It is easy to dwell on the things that make us unhappy, but I think instead we should dwell on the things that make us happy. Active pursuit of happiness in its myriad forms may not be always be easy, and we all feel guilt for doing things just for ourselves, but I think that if you are not pursuing happiness in your life, what’s the point? So I have decided to do the following:

Be out in the sun more – it really does give you a boost even when it is miserably hot outside. 20-40 minutes a day, with swimming on Monday should work well for this purpose. Although, I am going to need some sunblock.
Movie Tuesday – Every Tuesday I am going to go to the movies with Will. He loves the movies as much as I do, and if I am going, he wants to go, too. I think that going to the movies regularly is going to help us both and it will be a regular date night for us. I like Will and I like doing things with him, so this will be happy making on multiple levels. Also, Will needs one day off a week, too, and my sincere hope is that this will help him be happy as well.
Exercise – I really hate this one as I am naturally lazy, but man, exercise really does give you that emotional boost. That said, I think I will stick with my treadmill until it gets a bit cooler. Fall and Spring are great for bike rides, though, so I think I may spend my 20-40 minutes outdoors on my bicycle during the cooler months.
Attitude – We worked with Ra for Litha, and one of the things that we were advised to do was throw our problems into the sun. Release the negative to be burned away and keep the positive. Now, this will be the hardest one to follow, but the most important step. For example, say during the implementation of Tuesday Movie Day we get cut off in traffic or something along those lines, instead of focusing on that negative thing, focus on the positive things in the day. Our thoughts do a great deal to manifest things in our lives, so negativity begets negativity but the reverse is also true. Pessimism may be more accurate, but optimists sure seem like happier people, don’t they?
Spirituality – Forgive and move on. There are numerous meditations, rituals, and exercises that can help you release the negativity from hurts of the past. Most of them involve forgiving yourself and others for various hurts in your life. Releasing this stored anger is freeing and it helps promote a healthier and happier you. I’ve found that forgiveness work really does help with a variety of things. I’ve made amends where needed for wrongs I’ve committed and I’ve let go of those wrongs committed against me. It was a lot easier than I expected it to be and so much opened up once I did this. You get see the world in a new way when you aren’t carrying around every single hurt from the past. Learn from the past hurts, but release the anger and resentment attached to these lessons. Purging stored negativity from the past is good for the soul!

I think the hardest thing for me has been deciding to put myself first. However, there is no way I can help others if I am a wreck, so the first step is to take care of me, and then take care of others. Too often we get the order confused and try to take care of others when we aren’t really even taking care of ourselves. To quote Buffy, the first rule of slaying is don’t die – and that is a good metaphor to follow.

I’m sure there are many ways to pursue happiness and each of us have different methods. What do you do to actively pursue your own happiness?

Thankfulness in Prayer

2010-06-13T13:04:00.000-07:00

Before sleep, I pray. Last fall, I realized that my prayers could be accurately described of as a wishlist of things I wanted the Divine to do for me. Help me to do this, please can I have that, etc. While I often would include thanks to the gods in my prayers it was almost always an afterthought. After I noticed this, I couldn’t stop noticing it, and it made me feel like I was praying incorrectly. I know that there is not right or wrong way to pray, but giving a list of demands to the gods didn’t really set well with me.

The pagan thanksgiving celebration is celebrated during the autumnal equinox in September. My women’s spirituality group got together for a ritual and a thanksgiving feast to mark the occasion last year. As part of the day, we placed on paper leaves the various things we were thankful for, then strung the paper leaves on a string and placed them on a tree outside. As the wind blew through the paper leaves, our prayer of thanks went out to the powers that be, at least until the first rainfall.

I realized during this ritual that I should be thankful every day. Having a special occasion to celebrate our thanks for the good things in life is a wonderful and necessary thing, but on a personal level, I felt it shouldn’t be only once a year. Also, by thinking of what I was thankful for every day, I thought that maybe I would start seeing the world a bit differently.

This isn’t a new idea. During Thanksgiving, someone usually brings up the idea that you should be thankful every day, not just on a holiday. People nod in agreement, but mostly this type of thing just blows right past us. For me, when someone says that on Thanksgiving, I usually think that the person needs to get off of their high horse and eat some stuffing. Someone eating stuffing is always preferable to a lecture on life lessons, especially because people have to discover certain things themselves, in their own time, in their own way. Thankfulness is one of those things that needs to be discovered as part of a person’s personal journey.

Everyone’s life has good and bad. I have a habit of focusing on the negative more often than the positive. Part of this is because when talking with others, focusing on the positive too much feels like bragging. I could tell you how I’m married to the best person on the planet and then list the ways in which my spouse is awesome, but at a certain point, it sounds not only like arrogant bragging, but it also becomes boring. However, telling you about the horrible person who waited on me at the store is more interesting somehow.

However, focusing so much time and energy on the negative in life, on what we lack instead of what we have, seems like a disservice to the gods and a disservice to ourselves. Part of why I switched my prayers to being thankful was because it made life a little bit more fun. I try to find three new things to be thankful about every day. Some days this comes very easy, other days it can be a bit of a challenge, but the challenging days are made better by trying to find some good in the chaos.

Some days I find something truly majestic and awe inspiring to be thankful about, such as the time I saw a bald eagle on Rt. 127. The eagle was standing in the middle of the road and flew away when my car approached. I was very close when the eagle flew away and it was beautiful and so unexpected I felt as if I had been given a gift. On another day, when it was bitterly cold, I saw a red tailed hawk sitting on top of a power line. He was puffed out due to the cold and resembled a football, which was both cute and amusing as he looked incredibly fierce and incredibly fluffy, two things that don’t often mesh well. Nature often has many fantastic and beautiful offerings for me to be thankful for.

Other times I find myself thankful for something small or seemingly inconsequential. For example, I am really thankful that my Netflix account has a Watch Instantly option. I love instant gratification, and when it comes to movies, often by the time the movie arrives at my house I am no longer in the mood to see it. Watching instantly fixes this problem. I am also thankful for the peanut butter cups that are egg shaped for Easter – they have the perfect chocolate to peanut butter ratio. Deep and meaningful? Not really, but they are things I love and am thankful for, so they get a mention.

By focusing throughout the day on what I am going to thank the gods for in my prayers, I find that I look at my day in a different way. Instead looking at the negative on focusing in on the bad things that happen, I focus on the positive. Don’t get me wrong, I still have bad days where I want to scream, but even on those days I can find three things to be thankful for. If I can’t I always have the old standby of being thankful for my spouse, my house, and my friends and family and my spouse, house, and friends and family are truly great, so there is a lot just in those three to be happy about.

SIACAP and Lightworkers

2010-04-18T07:10:00.000-07:00

Many people have talked of late about a large awakening process underway in the world. More and more people are being put on the path of the lightworker. I’ve noticed this explosion of people becoming more in tune with their spiritual selves in my own area of rural, Southern Illinois. When I say Southern Illinois, think more Kentucky and Missouri – where I live is below the Mason-Dixon line and not near major cities.

Region is important because up until recent years, most progressive spiritual practices seemed to take place on the east or west coast of the nation, but for a rural area to have this explosion of people learning about Reiki, or tarot or a host of other lightworker tools is remarkable. Yesterday, I went to an all day Reiki Healing Retreat put on by SIACAP – The Southern Illinois Association of Complementary and Alternative Practitioners. With four 45 minute healing exchanges throughout the day, we broke into small groups of four and took turns healing each other through various modalities. There were two lovely guided meditations, and vendors who read tarot, took aura photographs, sold massage supplies such as eye pillows, and much more.

SIACAP’s mission is “to promote alternative healing modalities through teaching, sharing, and practicing and to promote community health through outreach programs and classes in various modalities.” The modalities?

· Acupuncture/Acupressure

· Chi Gung

· Cranial Sacral Therapy

· Crystal Healing

· Dowsing/Kinesiology

· Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)

· Exercise Physiology

· Feng Shui

· Flower and Gem Essences

· Guided Imagery

· Healing Touch

· Herbal Modalities

· Homeopathy

· Hypnosis

· Massage Therapy

· Meditation

· Psych-K

· Recreational Therapy

· Reflexology

· Reiki

· Shamanism

· Tarot reading

· Total Body Modification

· Tai chi

· Yoga

Just to name a few. SIACAP membership is $20 and members who pre-register for the all day retreat get in for $5, even if they are vendors. Not a member? That’s ok, the retreat costs only $10 for non-members if they preregister. As SIACAP is a non profit organization, registration at the door is not that expensive, either. Members who haven’t pre-registered it is $10 and nonmembers who register at the door are only $15. These retreats happen 3 times a year, and the cost at the door is to pay for the location costs, and eventually, guest speakers and teachers.

Why do I bring up the price of a retreat? Because it illustrates that people are getting together to help each other spiritually, not for money, but because it is needed. Once upon a time, to become a Reiki Master you needed $10,000. Now, people are passing on Reiki attunements for $20. This doesn’t mean that Reiki has become an undervalued system, it means that people are recognizing that the world needs as many healers and lightworkers as it can get. There are even some Reiki Masters who pass along attunements for free simply so that people have this skill and can help the world with it.

I think that certain people are instrumental in training more lightworkers. During yesterday’s retreat, all of the Reiki Masters were asked to meet together so that people could get to know each other. As we made our introductions, almost all of us could trace our beginnings on this path back to the SIACAP founder and president, Lorie Allen. Through her continuing education classes at a local Community College, we all first learned how to use our talents and focus our skills on healing touch or Reiki. This one lone woman taught us and then brought us all together and my bet is this is part of her life’s purpose – she is one of those souls who are meant to train and awaken large groups of people. http://www.touchingpaws.com/ is her website, although she is so busy with classes and clients, the class page hasn't been update in a while.

Women and men like her are out there, helping others put their feet on the path of healer and lightworker. Organizations like SIACAP are forming and gaining members because lightworkers are growing in numbers and banding together to share talent, share knowledge, and help others. Have you ever asked yourself why someone didn't start something like this in your community? Maybe, just maybe, you are the person who is supposed to start the group. If you build it, people will come.

For my own personal journey, finding Soul’s Journey online helped plug me into a network of caring people, much like those people who are part of SIACAP. For Soul’s Journey and SIACAP to both come into my life around the same time says to me that something profoundly wonderful is happening. Lightworkers are coming together more and more and together we are finding the support and care we need to help others in meaningful ways. Isn’t that what being a lightworker is all about?

Interested in SIACAP? Go online at http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SIACAP/ to join the online listserv or go http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=475959990576&ref=ts to see the Facebook group – although many of our members are not very interested in computers, we do have a bit of online presence should you like more information.

In Defense of Small Talk

2010-04-16T07:25:00.000-07:00

Part of being a lightworker, to me, is interacting with people in a positive and uplifting way. One of the small ways this can be accomplished is through small talk. Small talk does matter to people and can make them feel happy and important.

My women’s spirituality circle has recently undergone some changes, including the addition of new candidates for membership. For me, group mind is of supreme importance and so I spend quite a bit of time observing how the candidates interact with each other. There is one eye kept open for possible problems, another that looks to see who would work well together on projects, and both eyes on how the group runs when all of us are together and the strengths of the various members.

Many of these candidates are not just new to us, but new to each other. So much of what goes on in a circle like ours is of an intensely personal nature – this is a spirituality that is based in large part on personal growth – so having a circle of people that like each other and trust each other is pretty high on the priority list. You can still have rituals, healing, and energy exchances with people who are lukewarm with each other, but they are rarely transcendent experiences.

To that end, small talk bridges much of the gaps that people have when first meeting. Everyone is nervous. Everyone wants to be liked. Our group has a 90 day candidate period where we make sure that the person in question is the right fit for the group and vice versa, so everyone is on “good” behavior, or at least displaying some degree of company manners. However, we do have to get to know one another and become more familiar with each other. In comes small talk.

One recent meeting, the small talk centered around lentils and other beans. On the surface talking about eating lentils, and the preference of red lentils, and the various ways you can cook lentils (lentil loaf!) may seem more than a little dry or tedious, but it wasn’t. The lentil discussion gave four different people common ground with each other. Four people who don’t really know each other. Also, the conversation of lentils came out of a more serious issue of how to stretch a dollar in these times of major economic meltdown – a meltdown many of us feel very keenly as we try to make do with less. This lentil conversation showed how many people in our group had the scary experience of trying to feed many people with very little money and how beans and rice often came riding to the rescue in these situations. These women will understand if a member of our group loses their job, because they have been there before and had to survive that hardship. This is good to know.

However, even talk of the weather yields common ground. I like to know who gets cold easily so I can remind them to wear a sweater to my house – I like it cold. I also want to know who really enjoys summer. Talk of weather often leads to talk of who has lived in a different climate, what that climate was like, and the energy of the place. All good information to have.

Also, weather is an important part of our lives. The rain often makes basements in this area flood, or provides a good way to obtain water for ritual. Snow prevents travel, or induces snowball fights or sledding. Much of our life is dictated by weather from what we wear to how we travel to what our leisure activities will be that week. There is a reason that the Weather Channel is so popular. Often, talk of the weather can lead to much more intense conversations of relocation or family or major spiritual revelations. In order to get to the more intense part of the conversation, you have to open the door.

Small talk opens the door of communication. When someone says, “Is it hot enough for you?” you have the choice of mocking this as cliché, or of trying to understand why it is a cliché. It may be that the person asking the question is just metaphorically knocking on your door.

One of my best friends and I communicate a lot via email, but even when she lived in the area, we would have detailed conversations about the order we were going to pay our bills in. Neither of us were bored with these conversations, because they were important to us. To an outsider, we probably looked like we were just sitting around spouting numbers to each other, but to us, we were talking about our lives. In detail. Because the details are what we obsessed over, so having someone who cares about the details is great. When someone knows your details, they often know what you are thinking and how you will react in various situations.

Much of our lives are minutiae. Updating my status on Facebook, and reading the status updates of others, has shown me that life is often comprised of paying the bills, doing the laundry, making dinner, and vacuuming before company arrives. Considering the amount of time we spend on these mundane activities, it makes sense that we would want to talk about them. Also, in the atmosphere of a spiritual circle, I would like to know what person hates vacuuming but is pretty happy to wash dishes. When cleanup time arrives, you really don’t want to make it worse by asking people to do jobs they dread the most.

Growing up, we used to joke that my mother could find out someone’s life story in a matter of a few minutes. I would watch her sit in a waiting room and either strike up a conversation with someone seated next to her, or watch her respond favorably to someone asking her a mundane, small talk question. After 10 minutes, my mother would know how hard it was when that person’s parent died, where they worked, the names of every member of their family, what type of humor would make them laugh, and much, much more. Somewhere in her head is an endless filing cabinet of people who live in her large community and there are few people she doesn’t know. It makes her home more of a home to her to know about everyone in the community. It also makes her well liked.

It makes going shopping with her a nightmare because she is stopped constantly, but, hey, I’m kind of anti-social when shopping as it isn't my favorite thing in the world.

Small talk can be very boring, but in a lot of ways it works as the glue for holding a community together. With spiritual circles being fairly small communities, but communities nonetheless, small talk greases the wheels of communication and helps people ease into being comfortable with one another. Small talk is an ice breaker that most people are familiar with and one that they can understand. It is a social ritual that exists for a purpose, even if we often don’t think too much about that purpose. In a world where much of human interaction is online and brief, small talk serves to find commonality, break the ice, and helps people learn more about each other in a pressure free manner.

I also think that small talk is how we test the waters with each other. If you care enough to listen to me talk about how that one red sock had me wearing pink underwear for a few years, chances are you will care enough about the larger issues in my life. If you can be trusted to listen to me talk about eating beans and rice for three months with empathy and respect, chances are you can be trusted to listen to me talk about my hopes and fears. Small talk allows us, in the early stages of building a rapport, to test the waters with each other.

To end with the mundane, it is really late and I am tired so I am off to bed – it rained outside and the change in pressure has induced a bit of a headache. Is it wet enough outside for you?

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Hi Soul's Journey community, "Lightworker" needs your vote! Let's have fun and see if we can get Sahvanna's new book to the next round, where over 2500 authors get narrowed down to 250!
Link to Vote for "Lightworker"

Welcome to The Next Top Spiritual Author, a very special and unique competition. Over 2500 authors from around the world are ready to share their inspiring messages with the world, and to ask for your vote. The first Round of this competition starts on March 29th; each author will share their book idea through either an audio or video "pitch" (a brief explanation of their project). Visitors who were invited to come to the site by a perspective author are invited to register and cast a vote for the author and book they would like to see published. Authors who qualify will advance through four rounds until one grand prize winner is rewarded a publishing contract with Hampton Roads Publishing (www.HRpub.com), as well as a promotional package to help market that book when it is released. .

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Astrology for March 2010

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NEW MOON occurs on March 15, 2010 @ 05:01:05 PM EDT
The New Moon is kissing the Sun in Pisces as they join both Mercury and Uranus in a Grand Stellium! Deep pools of compassion and creativity are in evidence with this dramatic configuration. This stellium forms a trine to Mars in Leo as it opposes retrograde Saturn in Libra. Both great joy and great sorrow will be shared in the World at large. Faith and courage are amplified even at a time that events would seem unjust. Champions for the weak, sick or hungry will be working powerfully behind the scenes as hearts open to humanity as a whole.

FULL MOON occurs on March 29, 2010 @ 10:25:25 PM EDT
This Full Moon in Libra is in square to Pluto in Capricorn as it opposes the Aries Sun. This T-square indicated that we must actively pursue peace, remain true to our identity and do so in a powerful and enduring manner. This is an excellent time to re-dedicate ourselves to peace, freedom and security * the original objectives of this Nation. The influence of the Cardinal signs in this configuration indicated that we must aspire to our highest ideals as we reflect on our essence and build a new kingdom based on what history has taught us.

Mars Stations Direct on its scenic tour through Leo!

Mars is going to be in Leo for a very long time! Mars in Leo is sunny, bright, generous and warm! It will call us to pursue our heart's desire as it stays in the sign of Leo as long as it can stay in any sign until early summer 2010!

Mars made it entrance into Leo on October 16, 2009 at 11:32 AM and will station retrograde on December 20, 2009 at 08:27 AM EST and will station direct on March 10, 2010 at 12:47 PM EST. Mars will complete its tour of Leo on June 7, 2010 at 02:11 AM!

Courage and bravery will infuse each of us in different ways. Purr or roar in this cycle! You choose! The dramatic arts and appreciation and decoration of heroes in all walks of life are seen! Be sure to demonstrate your love and loyalty in this rare cycle! Remember that the sign of the Lion can also be proud, arrogant and ferocious! Know when to pounce and when to pull your claws back in! Throughout this amazing cycle, Mars will be in and out of its shadow and you will witness much passive-aggressive behavior in your dealings with others. Present your creativity with courage but demonstrate your wisdom in knowing that this is a territorial cycle for many. Try not to step on anyone*s tail!

Saturn Retrograde Alert!

Saturn, the Great Teacher of the zodiac, stationed retrograde on January 13, 2010 at 10:56 AM EST and will remain so until May 29, 2010 at 02:08 AM. During its retrograde it remains in square to Pluto in Capricorn. These ponderous planets on a grand scale indicate much change in legislature, corporate responsibility and the League of Nations. Litigations that appear in view of the public can suffer from delays and reputations and liabilities of those in a position of power may be re-examined. A long look back at history in other recessions and the impact of progress through revolutionary ingenuity is also seen. Strategies to deal with the war on terror will also be re-established on a Global scale.

Horoscopes by Aphrodette North

2010-03-01T08:12:00.002-08:00

The Month Ahead For Each Sign!

ARIES MAR 20 - APR 20 This New Moon, your ruler, Mars, is in Leo as it forms a trine to the Lights, Mercury and Uranus in Pisces. Courage, compassion and camaraderie are all seen as we move into this new lunar cycle. Mars forms a sweet sextile with retrograde Saturn in Libra causing you to experience déjà vu on many levels! On the Full Moon, your ruler is in trine to the Aries Sun and square to Venus late in your sign, as it sustains its sextile to Saturn. Honor your commitments at this time even with the frustration that you may encounter. Close personal relationships will be intense - for good or ill. Try to keep the opinions of others separate from the way you approach your closest relationships.

TAURUS APR 20 - MAY 21 Your ruler, Venus, is in Aries this New Moon and in square to Pluto in Capricorn. If you are either making or co-creating the rules in your world, this angle can serve you well. If you are in a position where you must follow the rules of other, tension and aggravation can easily develop. Organizations and agencies can present challenges at this time. At Full Moon, your ruler is later in Aries and is joined by Mercury in the Heavens. This conjunction is in sextile to Neptune and Chiron creating an opportunity to develop a healthier lifestyle. This configuration is called a Yod, of the "Finger of God". Mars in square to Venus? Tension between the sexes! Strive of tentative balance!

GEMINI MAY 21 - JUN 21 This New Moon, your ruler, Mercury, is in Pisces and part of a major stellium of energy! Inspiration, creativity and compassion can overwhelm you! Laughter as well as tears can occur spontaneously! Mercury is trine to Mars in Leo and opposing retrograde Saturn in Libra. Be fair. Use your fine mind to negotiate and compromise. At Full Moon, Mercury has moved on into Aries and is kissing Venus as it forms a Yod with Neptune in Aquarius and Saturn retrograde in Libra! Love is honest and sincere. Do not be afraid to initiate new ideas with those you love as well as sharing your dreams for the future. Energized activity seems to preclude relaxation! Go for it!

CANCER JUN 21 - JUL 22 Your ruler, The Moon, is New in Pisces and part of a strong stellium with the Sun, Mercury and Uranus. Psychic revelations and spiritual epiphanies approach you in waves! Be aware! The Piscean forces are psychic absorbing! Choose carefully those who are most frequently in your energy field. Choose one with a sharp intellect and one with a courageous heart! At Full Moon, your ruler is in Libra opposing the Aries Sun as it squares Pluto in Capricorn. You may feel a bit blocked by policies and procedures. Rules, taxes and late fees can cause some anxiety. Be sure to be honest and address the facts! Clearing is within your grasp. Strive for a more balanced lifestyle as it is important for you to be able to get out and play!

LEO JUL 22 - AUG 23 This New Moon, your ruler, the Sun, is in Pisces conjoining the Moon, Mercury and Uranus. This is a powerful gathering of forces in unfamiliar territory. Mars, however, is in your sign forming a quadruple trine to the cluster! With all the psychic energy available this month, rest assured, that your heart will lead you to your truth. Be at peace with the big picture. At Full Moon, the Sun has moved into Aries, in trine to Mars in Leo and in a T-square with the Moon and Pluto in Capricorn! Expand your sphere and continue to follow your heart knowing that the obstacles you are faced with will strengthen your resolve! Carefully review contracts and be sure that those you commit to have the integrity to match your own. Have at it!

VIRGO AUG 23 - SEP 23 Your ruler, Mercury, is in Pisces and in fine company with the Lights and Uranus! With all these heavenly bodies opposing your Virgo Sun expect to be very busy! This is your lowest biorhythmic cycle, so be sure to eat right and get plenty of rest. Avoid overindulgence!!! Many may need you but many will also appreciate you and reward you with acts of kindness. On the Full Moon, Mercury is now in Aries and cuddling up to Venus as they both form a sweet sextile to Neptune and Chiron in Aquarius! Saturn completes a Yod, opening you up to reconsider old judgments made in family matters. Speak your love; and speak it still again! Honesty now can heal with both your love interests and family! Enjoy!

LIBRA SEP 23 - OCT 23 This New Moon, your ruler, Venus, is in Aries in square to Pluto in Capricorn as it squares off with the Dragon. You will deeply discover in your inner journey that relationships can in art be karmic and in part birthed from your own preconceived notions of the past. New rules can be initiated now to free you up from habit patterns that no longer serve you. This Full Moon is in your sign as it opposes the Aries Sun and squares Pluto in Capricorn. Establishing a reputation takes a bit of work but you legendary tact and diplomacy will see you through. Keep all promises you make to others as well as those you make to yourself.

SCORPIO OCT 23 - NOV 22 This New Moon, both of your rulers are finally direct! Mars is in Leo forming a beautiful trine to a stellium of heavenly bodied in Pisces and Pluto is in Capricorn in square to Venus! Your psychic ability as well as your grasp of psychology will flourish in this cycle but be aware that this may frustrate those closest to you! On the Full Moon, Mars is in trine to the Sun and Pluto is locked in a cardinal T-square with the Lights! Radiate truth and courage and you will be able to balance the actual events occurring in your life. You will find yourself amidst a diverse group! You are naturally gifted due to your dual rulership to deal effectively with both events and processes. Roll with the punches!

SAGITTARIUS NOV 22 - DEC 21 Your ruler, Jupiter, is in Pisces all month and feeding the Dragon! At New Moon, you will be able to easily comprehend the security glitches in your life as well as others and be able to find viable solutions. In gatherings, you may want to stand a bit apart from the group to take in the bigger picture of all that surrounds you. On the Full Moon, your own psychic ability is intensified! Your philosophy of life is changing and acceptance of the limitations and boundaries of others is keen. Although you will continue to inspire others with your usual enthusiasm, your ability to truly manage by finding what fits for others will prove outstanding.

CAPRICORN DEC 21 - JAN 20 This New Moon, your ruler, Saturn, is exalted but retrograde in Libra as it opposes a magnificent stellium of heavenly bodies in Pisces. This configuration lends you the ability to withhold judgment when you are dealing with groups and varying solutions to complex projects. Saturn is also in sextile to Mars, now direct in Leo. This often affords you courage or one ally who stands by you as you face these challenges. On the Full Moon, Saturn forms the point of a Yod with Venus in Aries and a point of conjunction with Neptune and Chiron in Aquarius! Issues surrounding your health in the workplace as well as your home space will arise! Adjustments are part of a process that will complete itself after your ruler goes direct in late May.

AQUARIUS JAN 20 - FEB 19 Your ruler, Uranus, is in Pisces this New Moon and part of a spectacular line up of heavenly bodies including Mercury and the Lights! It will seem very natural to blend your intellect with your intuitive gifts. Expect flashes of inspiration accompanied by a bright awakening to your inner observer! Your artistic and technical creativity is also profound as your ruler is in trine to Mars in Leo. Humility will be a tight fit! At Full Moon, Uranus is still in trine to Mars as it opposes retrograde Saturn in Libra. This is an excellent time to consider an application for promotion or increasing your skill level through higher education. The best of the best!

PISCES FEB 19 - MAR 20

This New Moon, your ruler, Neptune, is kissing Chiron in Aquarius and forms no exact angles with the Lights or the planets. It is, however, active with Vesta and Pallas Athena, two of the asteroids in retrograde. This is an excellent time for an inner review of your health and overall well being. Introspection can bear fruit for you in this cycle as you consider your past and that of others. On the Full Moon, Neptune and Chiron are still traveling very close together in the heavens forming a Yod with retrograde Saturn in Libra and Mercury conjoined with Venus in Aries. Look to form healthy and honest relationships both on the intimate level and in groups that share your interest or vision! You are overdue!

Febuary Horoscopes by J.Dicarlo

2010-02-01T16:40:00.000-08:00

February 2010 Horoscopes
By Jacqueline

With Mercury completing its’ run through Capricorn as goes into Aquarius, it affords us the ability to look towards the future once again! No more worries about the past, no more worries about the future let us hold our heads high and welcome this new relief! Guiding us as we move forward we feel Venus going into Pisces on the 11th, and the new Moons arrival on the 13th allowing us to intuitively know who and see who and what we love just in time for Valentines Day. Finishing off this month with the full Moon in Virgo on the 28th permitting us to transform our emotions towards what is truly destined.

Aries March 23 - April 22
Your Aries fire gives you the feeling of restlessness and a sense for adventure. However instead of wasting time on needless thoughts, take this time to reevaluate what you set into motion in the fall. Realize what adjustments you need to make, then sit back and relax, have some fun. Next months you can make the alterations needed.

Taurus April 23 – May 22
A feeling of restlessness and boredom fills your day however, work must be done. Since you can’t take a
vacation, let the party begin at home. Know when you have to show up to what is obligatory and be your best, but take the time in between to celebrate life with friends and loved ones.

Gemini May 23 – June 22
Get out of the doldrums and let your spirit speak! Take this time to formulate your ideas and put them to paper. Do the research and take the initiative to make your dreams become realities. You have the ability to make it happen and get it done. With Saturn’s energy trining you, it’s time to put your ideas into physical form and then you will see it is you.

Cancer June 23 – July 22
“… If you teach a man to fish, he can feed himself.” Now is the time to reflect on your generosity towards others. Stop doing for those who aren’t doing for you or themselves. This month is a time for you to clean up not only your house but how you deal with those around you. The universe is telling you to let go of the past and move into your new future. The question is; are you listening?

Leo July 23 – August 22
You’ve reached the midpoint of your physical year and have reached your turning point. Now is the time organize and refine the details as you prepare for the forthcoming changes. Rely not on others, as they will not give you the benefit of the doubt; you’re going to have to come up with the physical proof. Next month is when all will start to fall into place.

Virgo August 23 – September 22
Timing is your anchor and now is not the time for you to make grandiose plans or obligations that you can’t keep. Instead use this time to take care of yourself. A massage would be a good idea. This is your calm before storm as Mars goes direct and time will accelerate at a rapid pace.

Libra September 23 – October 22
The fuddled lines of communication are open for you this month, take this opportunity to ask more questions of those you know the least about and define yourself with those close to you. You’ll find it will not only deepen and strengthen them but also open your eyes to new avenues you haven’t thought of.

Scorpio October 23 – November 22
Patience is a virtue and your motto this month. With Jupiter and Uranus trining you, you will be given the ability to see what you truly love and the avenues to get it. Remember that these are slow moving planets, and all will come to those who wait.

Sagittarius November 23 – December 22
The Mars retrograde is still affecting you. Now is the time to ask questions and gather information as well as reviewing the decisions you made in the fall. Next month Mars goes direct and you can act upon what you have learned.

Capricorn December 23 – January 22
Like any artist, there comes a time to put on the finishing touches and this month is your time to do so. So wrap up those projects that are almost completed. Finish your responsibilities to others, clean up your financial matters and get rid of what is from the past. You’ll find comfort in those who are water signs now.

Aquarius January 23 – February 22
Happy Solar Return! It’s party time for you! Enjoy the excitement of this month. However don’t get caught up in the drama of others. Do it at your pace and don’t feel forced to do anything. Nothing is urgent and with some additional investigation, you can find a way that works for you.

Pisces February 23 – March 22
This is the time for you to speak your truth. Those who will respect you are going to draw closer and those who you come in conflict with will go away. You are being guided by a guardian angel now, sit back and allow her to guide you. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at what she brings.

For those who want to know:
The Moon is the fastest moving planet in our solar system. It changes signs approximately every 2 ½ days and moves through all 12 signs in 28 days. It governs our emotions or how we feel about things as well as the tides in our oceans. The Moons energy is what nurtures us and is known to rule the mother. Since it is the most changeable planet, know when you’re emotionally down that it will change within a couple of days and act like our oceans and go with the flow.

January Horoscope

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January 2010 Horoscope
LUNATIONS
NEW MOON SOLAR ECLIPSE occurs on January 15, 210 at 02:11:23 AM EST
The Lights are kissing in Capricorn and conjunct both the Head of the Dragon and Venus on
this Solar Eclipse as they join in a sweet sextile to Uranus in Pisces! That which we
identify with and have established will be overshadowed with our desire to be both
parents and children of this orb called Earth. Venus in Capricorn speaks of love in terms
of responsibility. Often tough love is needed to apply discipline to our creative and
intuitive forces. Retrograde Mercury in Capricorn conjoins Pluto as they form a dual
square with Saturn in Libra on the Eclipse. The questions will be raised as to how much
regulation, protection and justice for all can be re-established in this time of
rebirthing - which is upon us!

FULL MOON occurs on January 30, 2010 at 01:17:35 AM EST
This Full Moon in Leo is conjunct retrograde Mars and in opposition to both the Sun and
Venus in Aquarius. The creativity of this cycle is astounding! Art and intellect blend in
ingenious and dramatic ways in this cycle on a Global scale! Personal struggles are seen
between a desire to possess but to maintain our individuality as new opportunities arise.
Lifestyles, relationships and careers will all be under scrutiny to determine if they
illuminate and fulfill our sense of Higher Purpose. Good causes and altruistic aims will
be strongly demonstrated in the media - even in the new video games and dramas that
emerge in this cycle. Be ready for a wild ride filled with sensory overload!

PLANETARY ALERTS!
Mercury Retrograde Alert!
Mercury will retrograde in Capricorn on December 26, 2009 at 09:38 AM EST and will
station direct on January 15, 2010 at 11:52 AM EST. During retrograde Mercury in any sign
it is always best to exercise extreme caution in signing contracts, investing in products
or projects and working with detailed plans for the future. With this Mercury retrograde
in Capricorn, going over past projects with a thorough demeanor can allow you to catch
errors and learn some lessons as you do proceed after the retrograde has passed. In tense
conversations or dealing with financial competition or romantic adversaries - retreat is
often an excellent idea! Try to follow all rules, regulations - and even speed limits
whenever possible! Capricorn also rules the bones - more specifically the knees and
ankles - as well as the teeth. If you have has issues with these focal points in the
body, you may find yourself back at the chiropractor or dentist's office!

Mars Stations Retrograde on its scenic tour through Leo!
Mars is going to be in Leo for a very long time! Mars in Leo is sunny, bright, generous
and warm! It will call us to pursue our heart's desire as it stays in the sign of Leo as
long as it can stay in any sign until early summer 2010! Mars made it entrance into Leo
on October 16, 2009 at 11:32 AM and will station retrograde on December 20, 2009 at 08:27
AM EST and will not station direct until March 10, 2010 at 12:47 PM EST. Mars will
complete its tour of Leo on June 7, 2010 at 02:11 AM!

Courage and bravery will infuse each of us in different ways. Purr or roar in this cycle!
You choose! The dramatic arts and appreciation and decoration of heroes in all walks of
life are seen! Be sure to demonstrate your love and loyalty in this rare cycle! Remember
that the sign of the Lion can also be proud, arrogant and ferocious! Know when to pounce
and when to pull your claws back in! Throughout this amazing cycle, Mars will be in and
out of its shadow and you will witness much passive-aggressive behavior in your dealings
with others. Present your creativity with courage but demonstrate your wisdom in knowing
that this is a territorial cycle for many. Try not to step on anyone's tail!

Saturn Retrograde Alert!
Saturn, the Great Teacher of the zodiac, stations retrograde on January 13, 2010 at 10:56
AM EST and will remain so until May 29, 2010 at 02:08 AM. During its retrograde it
remains in square to Pluto in Capricorn. These ponderous planets on a grand scale
indicate much change in legislature, corporate responsibility and the League of Nations.
Litigations that appear in view of the public can suffer from delays and reputations and
liabilities of those in a position of power may be re-examined. A long look back at
history in other recessions and the impact of progress through revolutionary ingenuity is
also seen. Strategies to deal with the war on terror will also be re-established on a
Global scale.

The Month Ahead For Each Sign!
ARIES MAR 20 - APR 20
On the Solar Eclipse, your ruler, Mars, is retrograde in Leo and is particularly active
with the asteroids - but not any major planets or luminaries. Mars does form a square to
Pallas Athena and is in a Grand Trine with Ceres in Sagittarius and Juno in your sign. By
wide orb, it opposes, Chiron in Aquarius. Relationships and dialogues with those from
your past can certainly come back to haunt you. During this Eclipse, it will be easier
for you to identify with the lessons learned than to hold others responsible for those
hurts you have not healed. This is a cosmic gift! This Full Moon is conjunct your ruler
as it opposes the Sun and Venus in Aquarius. Honest and loyal communication can flourish
in this cycle.

TAURUS APR 20 - MAY 21
Your ruler, Venus, is in Capricorn kissing the Head of the Dragon and the Lights and in
sextile to Uranus in Pisces on the Solar Eclipse. Expect to see much poetic justice in
those persons and circumstances that surround you. You will feel a healthy respect for
standards of excellence in products or services. If you have been considering changing
your doctor, dentist or hair stylist you will seek greater response-ability from those
you choose to do business with. At Full Moon, your ruler has moved on into Aquarius and
is kissing the Sun as it opposes both the Leo Moon and Mars retrograde. Blending the
insight of both heart and head is crucial in this cycle. You may want to be admired for
your desirability as well as your wit! Friendships flex with strength now and are the
muscle behind ponderous decisions.

GEMINI MAY 21 - JUN 21
This Solar Eclipse finds your ruler, Mercury, still retrograde until later in the day!
Retrograde Mercury is conjoined to Pluto in Capricorn at the time of the Eclipse and in
square to Saturn, now retrograde in Libra. Expect to get caught up in the analysis of
what is fair and what is not. Expect to think and think again about decisions you have
made in the past that either lacked or demonstrated good judgment. At Full Moon, your
ruler is now direct in Capricorn and lined up with the Head of the Dragon. If you have
been considering taking a stand either personally or professionally, this is a good cycle
to do it. Do not be intimidated by others need for sympathy, but rather stick to the
issues at hand to be victorious. DO follow the rules, laws and even speed limits! If you
fudge, you see the judge!

CANCER JUN 21 - JUL 22
The Cosmos choosing Venus as your companion as your ruler, the Moon, eclipses the Sun
seems so very just! With so many planets in Capricorn, your opposite sign, this is your
lowest biorhythmic cycle, so you will feel enhanced even if you face security issues by
keeping your allies close. The Moon in Capricorn also forms a sextile to Uranus in Pisces
which can may for pleasant and unexpected surprises and revelations. At Full Moon, your
ruler is in Leo conjoined to retrograde Mars as they both oppose the Sun and Venus in
Aquarius. This is a better time to be the counselor than the hero. Courageous acts are
born of support rather than strategy. Your healing power lies in the clever expression of
your ideas and ideals, It is through concept and wisdom that you make progress now.

LEO JUL 22 - AUG 22
So! Your ruler is Eclipsed. What you will discover is that your identity is undergoing
growth and change. Take a long look at how your concepts regarding emotional
responsiveness and committed love were formed. This is an excellent time for
enlightenment on a more reflective than radiant level. Many pensive revelations are seen
as your ruler, the Sun is in sextile to Uranus in Pisces. At Full Moon, your ruler is
kissing Venus in Aquarius as it opposes both the Moon and retrograde Mars in your sign.
Rest on any decision to commit either in relationship or career opportunity as the cost
of losing your independence may be a bit high. It is wise to keep and escape hatch open
in this cycle. DO be warm and interested and even profound - but be sure to keep others
guessing just a little!

VIRGO AUG 23 - SEP 22
On this Solar Eclipse, your ruler, Mercury, is retrograde in Capricorn, kissing Pluto and
in square to retrograde Saturn in Libra. This is the perfect time to consider the many
mentors that have been in your life. It is through this soul searching that you will
become a mentor to others through this coming year. Your ability to become part of the
solution is enhanced because the parade of planets in Capricorn compliments your sign. At
Full Moon, your ruler is now direct in Capricorn and conjunct the Head of the Dragon.
Games with strategy can have appeal as can stimulating conversations around politics and
policies! Be careful you do not get in too deep! Practical and down to Earth advice will
be appreciated but it must be delivered with compassion for best results!

LIBRA SEP 23 - OCT 23
Your ruler, Venus, is in Capricorn conjoining the Lights at the time of the Solar Eclipse
as it is proximal to the Head of the Dragon. Love may be presenting new responsibilities
such as care of parents or additional children being born into the family. This is your
cycle to share in this responsibility with a healthy strategy. It is important for you to
keep your balance. If you need help, find it! Difficulties with local travel can spring
up out of nowhere! Give yourself extra time to get where you are going. At Full Moon,
your ruler has moved on into Aquarius and is kissing the Sun as it opposes both the Full
Moon and retrograde Mars in Leo! USE YOUR MENTAL FORCES TO OVERCOME UNNECESSARY DRAMA!
Risk impromptu rhetoric rather than your health or peace of mind! Forces of Light feed
your sense of justice now.

SCORPIO OCT 23 - NOV 22
Yes, you are caught between a rock and a hard place. Does it feel as if you have been
here before? Is history repeating itself? Your planet of Process, Pluto, is in Capricorn
being approached by retrograde Mercury in that sign and in square to Saturn retrograde in
Libra. Your planet of event, Mars, is retrograde in Leo, and by wide orb, opposing Chiron
in Aquarius. DO ponder the past to more deeply understand what you have learned. Healing
is possible but only if you take it step by step. This Full Moon in Leo is conjunct
retrograde Mars in Leo and opposing the Sun and Venus in Aquarius. Through higher mind
you seek and find provocative solutions to get "unstuck". Possibilities and innovations
in technology can be critical tools in your future. Do not be afraid to progress - even
if others are doubtful!

SAGITTARIUS NOV 22 - DEC 21
On this Solar Eclipse, your ruler, Jupiter hangs on in the last degree of Aquarius before
it enters Pisces. This is a time to merge intellect with creative possibility. What do
you envision for your future? Who will you take on the road to your success? Jupiter
makes no major angles to planets or luminaries in this cycle. Remember that your immunity
only stays in place in solitude. Many others will struggle as you witness. At Full Moon,
your ruler has moved on into Pisces for the next year and is forming a sweet sextile to
Pluto in Capricorn. Keep the status quo just now. It is a time to go with the flow and
allow your personality out to play in new ways. Subtlety can get you big points! Listen
well and be a bit mysterious! Smile more for no reason and others will naturally seek you
out for friendship as well as opportunity.

CAPRICORN DEC 21 - JAN 20
Many Happy Solar Returns, Capricorn! This is your month! On the Solar Eclipse, your
ruler, Saturn, is retrograde in Libra and forming a dynamic square to both retrograde
Mercury and Pluto in your sign! Only open your mouth if it empowers you and you have
proof or documentation!!! Try not to watch too many tear jerkers on television or at the
movies as the unfairness of the World can really get you down. Balance with humor and
executing your sense of purpose in real time! At Full Moon, retrograde Saturn is still in
square to Pluto in Capricorn but it is forming a trine to the Aquarian Sun. Although many
of the rules that are in place can make you feel somewhat claustrophobic, new ideas keep
coming in for evaluation. Be sure to use your sense of duty and justice to work towards
positive change in the future. You are definitely not alone!

AQUARIUS JAN 20 - FEB 19
Your ruler, Uranus, is in Pisces all month and actually quite quiet! On the Solar
Eclipse, it lightens up the drama by forming a sweet sextile to the Lights, Venus and the
Head of the Dragon in Capricorn. Your sense of humor and knack for provocative thought
can quell the voices of discontent and the gloom bringers! Go for it! The Full Moon in
Leo conjoins retrograde Mars as it opposes both the Sun and Venus in your sign! Seek a
great audience for you antics and your innovative ideas and you are all set in this
cycle. Allies need not be at your elbow at all times. Some of your greatest allies are
those who taught you bits of philosophy long ago. Share it now! Your ruler, Uranus does
form a trine to the Tail of the Dragon. Wild rides can be very entertaining! Enjoy!

PISCES FEB 19 - MAR 20
Your ruler, Neptune, is in Aquarius all month and very quiet! It is still cushioned
between Chiron and Jupiter in a profound conjunction of healing and prosperity. Dream
big! A desire to be there for family and extended family is seen. Be sure to be the
helper and not the martyr. At Full Moon, the conjunction is still in place but Jupiter,
the planet of good fortune and abundance has moved into your sign for a full year! Your
spiritual gifts will magnify themselves and you may become very sensitive to your
surroundings. Spend some time in solitude to regroup. Jupiter can be a great blessing but
you can also receive too much of a good thing. Beware obsessions with substances and
persons. Moderation will be the key as this year unfolds!

The Month Ahead For Each Sign!

2009-12-07T06:59:00.000-08:00

By Aphrodette North

ARIES MAR 20 - APR 20
This Full Moon, your ruler, Mars is in Leo and forming a triple opposition to Jupiter, Chiron and Neptune - all in Aquarius! This is a great time to give inspired gifts to yourself as well as others. You will find yourself naturally attracted to items that encourage a sense of luminosity to body, mind or spirit! At New Moon, your ruler is still in Leo and now if forming a beautiful triple trine to Venus, the Sun and Moon - all in Sagittarius as it maintains its opposition to Chiron, Jupiter and Neptune! This is a time of profound optimism and joy. Good health, good cheer and lighthearted entertainment are sure to be yours! Shine it on! On the Blue Moon, both, your ruler, Mars, and Mercury the communicator of the zodiac are now retrograde! Your Mars in Leo forms a quincunx to both retrograde Mercury in Capricorn and the Head of the Dragon, reflecting that you may have regrets because time did not allow you to contact or see everyone you would have liked to. Luckily, Mars is still in opposition to the Aquarian parade and technology will come to your aid to set things straight!

TAURUS APR 20 - MAY 21
Your ruler, Venus, arrived in Sagittarius just in time for this Full Moon and is forming a sweet sextile to Saturn in Libra. Time to get into the swing of the holiday season, embracing peace and good cheer! At New Moon, Venus is kissing the Lights in Sagittarius and forming a dramatic trine to Mars in Leo! Romance is in the air and festivities are underway! Do watch the weather report as Venus is also forming a square to Uranus in Pisces! You could have unexpected precipitation that could cause you to have a smaller gathering. On this Blue Moon in Cancer, Venus and the Sun oppose from the sign of Capricorn. Your ruler also forms a square to Saturn in Libra! Responsibilities regarding children and family may take a front seat to other projected events. Let your conscience be your guide and if you must, bring in the New Year a bit late this year. Expect there to be added security if you are hobnobbing with the politically highlighted or the rich and famous. Airports can be experiencing a slowdown. Check all flight times and reservations twice to save yourself frustration!

GEMINI MAY 21 - JUN 21
On this Full Moon, your ruler, Mercury is in Sagittarius and square to Uranus in Pisces as it forms a triple sextile to Jupiter, Chiron and Neptune all in Aquarius! A sudden epiphany regarding what s healthy, happy and ideal for you is evident. Surprises for good and ill occur in the workplace. At New Moon, your ruler has moved on into Capricorn and making no significant aspects in the lunation chart. Be sure to follow all the rules, laws and keep your word! Thoughts can be quite disciplined now and it is easier for you to evaluate persons and circumstances in your life. On the Eclipse, your ruler is now retrograde in Capricorn as it lines up with the Dragon and forms a quincunx to Mars in Leo - now also retrograde! Your review of past persons and circumstances can really open your eyes. Understanding the strengths and limitations of others will help you to proceed more smoothly this Spring. Your learning process now is deep and long lasting. Journal your insights at this time as you will see them as treasure in February!

CANCER JUN 21 - JUL 22
Your ruler, the Moon, is Full in Gemini early this month representing a flurry of ideas and activities. Although this cycle is normally one of completion, for you it is more of a continuum to enjoy the upcoming holiday celebrations and catch up with everyone! At New Moon, your ruler is in Sagittarius kissing the Sun and in trine to Mars in Leo as it squares Uranus in Pisces. Love, romance and loyalty abound for you in this cycle! Generosity with gifts and praise is seen! Beware the unexpected in local travel arrangements, unexpected delays of guests and sudden precipitation as you are on your way to gatherings. Unexpected news comes from a sibling or close friend. There can be mixed feelings but profound sharing. On the Blue Moon, your ruler is in Cancer opposing both Venus and the Sun in Capricorn as it forms a square to Saturn in Libra. You will feel a big stretch if you try and make everyone happy simultaneously. No matter where you find yourself - you will wonder if you have made the right choice! Punt and enjoy!

LEO JUL 22 - AUG 22
Your ruler, the Sun, is in enthusiastic Sagittarius opposing the Full Moon in Gemini early this month. Your positive attitude and ability to "WOW" others by your dramatic delivery of your interesting adventures will serve you well. Expect some interesting debates and a variety of persons to be surrounding you. At New Moon, your ruler is in the midst of Venus and the Moon in Sagittarius depicting warm friends and interesting fans. DO go for the limelight as this conjunction forms a fabulous trine to Mars in your sign of Leo! Whether you are addressing a group or huddled in a deep and profound conversation with one person, you will feel a sense of warmth and fulfillment on this Lunation. At Blue Moon, the focus turns to responsibilities and getting organized. Your ruler is in Capricorn conjoining Venus as it opposed the Moon in Cancer. A little tough love and a paring down of expenditures is seen. Love is steady though and others will back up your decisions.

VIRGO AUG 23 - SEP 22
This Full Moon, your ruler, Mercury is in Sagittarius forming a triple sextile to Jupiter, Chiron and Neptune all in Aquarius as it forms a square to Uranus in Pisces! If you have healing gifts you will find yourself very busy dealing with others in spontaneous crisis. If you are one who appreciates massage, energy work and being around kindred spiritual souls, DO take the initiative to treat yourself! Social opportunities can also appear out of nowhere! Enjoy! At New Moon, your ruler is in Capricorn and not forming any major aspects to other planets. The attention regarding getting organized and finishing up on projects is directly on you. Take inventory, make your lists and check them twice before your ruler stations retrograde. Preparation can be a saving grace! At Blue Moon, your ruler is now retrograde in Capricorn as it lines up with the Dragon and forms a quincunx to Mars, now retrograde in Leo. You will feel some disappointments with family and close friends in this cycle. Try to withhold making snap judgments until you get all the facts. Thank me later!

LIBRA SEP 23 - OCT 22
The Full Moon early this month features your ruler, Venus, very new in Sagittarius forming a sweet sextile to Saturn exalted in your sign! Love is fair, responsible, fun and adventuresome in this cycle! Social and romantic interactions benefit you with this Lunation! On the New Moon, your ruler is later in Sagittarius and conjoining the Lights as they form a magnificent trine to Mars in Leo and an outrageous square to Uranus in Pisces! Be the initiator in love and romance. Do NOT be afraid to be spontaneous with those you adore - whether they are pets or people! A full night life with some great dance moves may be in your immediate future! On the Blue Moon, Venus has moved on into Capricorn, a chilly position for Venus that does not complement your Libra Sun. Venus forms a challenging square to Saturn exalted in your sign and opposes the Blue Moon in Cancer. Be fair and balanced when dealing with family members or board meetings. Taking sides without careful consideration is suicide in this cycle!

SCORPIO OCT 23 - NOV 21
The first Full Moon this month features Mars in Leo and Pluto in Capricorn. Pluto, your ruling planet of process, is in square to Saturn exalted in Libra. Choose negotiation rather than elimination, regarding contract especially if it is an association of long duration. Mars, your ruling planet of event, is in opposition to the trilogy of Jupiter, Chiron and Neptune - all in Aquarius! Take good care of your mental and physical health and be sure to spend time with those who are fond of you and are possibility thinkers! At New Moon, Pluto's positional square to Saturn in Libra encourages you to get advice from experts - some even being at a distance. Mars in Leo trines both Venus and the Lights in Sagittarius calling you to exercise a positive attitude and share your philosophies, as well as your jokes, with others. Traveling can be stressful, so stay local and utilize phone and e-mail as much as possible. On the Blue Moon, Pluto and Venus are close together in the Heavens in Capricorn and in square still to Saturn in Libra. Let someone you love help you with difficult decisions regarding resources. Mars in Leo is now retrograde calling you to consider bravery versus foolhardiness! Minimize risks now.

SAGITTARIUS NOV 22 - DEC 20
Happy Solar Return, Sagittarius! This is your month! Your ruler, Jupiter, is in Aquarius all month and still traveling close to both Chiron and Neptune. Although this is a season that speaks of charity and good will, give wisely with both time and money to those causes you favor while this trilogy forms a triple quincunx to the Tail of the Dragon! Because your ruler is also in opposition to Mars in Leo, utilize your generous reputation by being the spokesperson or attending the annual ball! At New Moon, the configuration is still strong as these are planets of process interacting. The parade of Sagittarian planets - so typical of the month of your birth - will help you to remain optimistic, supportive and make necessary exits if you get cornered! At Blue Moon, as Mars retrogrades in opposition to Jupiter, it is import6ant for you to rest on your laurels a bit. You can even receive a certificate of appreciation or a bonus at this time. Hold your ideals high and be friendly to those who surround you! This is a win-win cycle!

CAPRICORN DEC 21 - JAN 19
Your ruler Saturn is exalted in Libra all month and on the first Full Moon this month is forming a sweet sextile to Venus in early Sagittarius! Plan a trip or escape into your favorite sport or activity while you can! Your ruler is also square to Pluto in your sign - so be sure you have all your obligations in place before you party! At New Moon, your ruler is quiet except for the Plutonian square. Weigh how much freedom you enjoy against the obligations you have put in place. Know that changes in this delicate balance will need time - but still do begin to execute critical changes in this cycle. On the Blue Moon, there is a profound trilogy of the Sun, Venus and Pluto all in your sign! Pluto and Venus are in square to your ruler calling you to aspire to creating what is fair and balanced in your life rather than that which may be too ambitious. Saturn is in square to the Blue Moon in Cancer, depicting the loyalty to family and those you nurture in your world. Do a little less - but make it count!

AQUARIUS JAN 20 - FEB 19
At Full Moon, your ruler, Uranus, is in Pisces and in square to Mercury in Aquarius! Choose if you wish to be the life of the party or spend a bit of time putting your foot in your mouth! Being the rebel, this may change from moment to moment! At New Moon, your ruler is now in square to Venus and the Lights in Sagittarius as it forms a trine to the Tail of the Dragon! Get fired up for holiday cheer and interaction but also do something consequential for the less than fortunate! You will thank me later! DO avoid ice fishing or other dangerous sports in this cycle. Choose another time to demonstrate your bravery! At Blue Moon, you are really thinking on your feet! Your ruler, Uranus, in Pisces, is in sextile to both the Head of the Dragon and retrograde Mercury. If you have projects underway that have been frustrating, new insights and revelations can help you progress. Form a think tank and enjoy the company as you re-create!

PISCES FEB 19 - MAR 19
Your ruler, Neptune, is in Aquarius and still traveling close to both Chiron and Jupiter in the Heavens! The first Full Moon Lunation this month reveals an exquisite sextile to Mercury in Sagittarius and this trilogy of planets! It is a time to laugh, embrace camaraderie and enjoy the moments! Mars is opposing this trilogy calling you to be brave about seeking fun and enlightenment. Help the needy - but also help yourself in this cycle! On the New Moon, you may put a little extra in the collection box or show up for the Toys for Tots drive as this is a time that your spiritual side needs to express itself. Dress up as Santa, an elf or just in festive holiday attire! You will love it! At Blue Moon, there is a personal desire to share with family or those who have been with you through the ups and downs of life. Honoring the sincere hearts of others shows the reciprocal force you offer in your quiet moments in reflection. Peace and compassion are powers you possess!

Mars Stations Retrograde on its scenic tour through Leo!

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By Aphrodette North
Mars is going to be in Leo for a very long time! Mars in Leo is sunny, bright, generous and warm! It will call us to pursue our heart's desire as it stays in the sign of Leo as long as it can stay in any sign until early summer 2010!

Mars made it entrance into Leo on October 16, 2009 at 11:32 AM and will station retrograde on December 20, 2009 at 08:27 AM EST and will not station direct until March 10, 2010 at 12:47 PM EST. Mars will complete its tour of Leo on June 7, 2010 at 02:11 AM!

Courage and bravery will infuse each of us in different ways. Purr or roar in this cycle! You choose! The dramatic arts and appreciation and decoration of heroes in all walks of life are seen! Be sure to demonstrate your love and loyalty in this rare cycle! Remember that the sign of the Lion can also be proud, arrogant and ferocious! Know when to pounce and when to pull your claws back in! Throughout this amazing cycle, Mars will be in and out of its shadow and you will witness much passive-aggressive behavior in your dealings with others. Present your creativity with courage but demonstrate your wisdom in knowing that this is a territorial cycle for many. Try not to step on anyone's tail!

Mercury Retrograde Alert!

2009-12-07T06:53:00.000-08:00

By Aphrodette North
Mercury will retrograde in Capricorn on December 26, 2009 at 09:38 AM EST and will station direct on January 15, 2010 at 11:52 AM EST. During retrograde Mercury in any sign it is always best to exercise extreme caution in signing contracts, investing in products or projects and working with detailed plans for the future. With this Mercury retrograde in Capricorn, going over past projects with a thorough demeanor can allow you to catch errors and learn some lessons as you do proceed after the retrograde has passed. In tense conversations or dealing with financial competition or romantic adversaries - retreat is often an excellent idea! Try to follow all rules, regulations - and even speed limits whenever possible! Capricorn also rules the bones - more specifically the knees and ankles - as well as the teeth. If you have has issues with these focal points in the body, you may find yourself back at the chiropractor or dentists office!

December 2009 Horoscope

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LUNATIONS
By Aphrodette North

FULL MOON occurs on December 2, 2009 at 02:30:27 AM EST
This Full Moon in Gemini opposes the Sagittarian Sun reflecting the chatter and mental activity that goes with the race of holiday activity! Making much contact and traveling both locally and great distances to commune with friends, family and loved ones is seen! Gatherings, storytelling and great humor seem all so appropriate! Make your plans for months end before both Mars and Mercury station retrograde. Give yourself options as they may come in handy at the last minute!

NEW MOON occurs on December 16, 2009 at 07:02:06 AM EST
This beautiful New Moon in Sagittarius is closely accompanied by the Sun and Venus as they form a triple trine to Mars in Leo! Love is happy, joyous and full of positive energy and bustling activity. One word of caution! The Lights form a quincunx with the Tail of the Dragon in the sign of Cancer. Be sure to keep a ceiling on your generosity this holiday season. Respond abundantly - but try to keep debt and buyer's remorse to a minimum. You will thank me later!

BLUE MOON - Partial Lunar Eclipse occurs on December 31, 2009 at 02:12:45 PM EST
Yes, a bonus Full Moon this New Year's Eve! This is the Ice Moon, or the Full Moon following Yule - which is usually in January! There is much legend and lore about the Blue Moon but this particular one packs a powerful punch so that you can truly make a New Year's resolution and actually keep it!! This Full Moon in Cancer opposes both Venus and the Sun in Capricorn. With Mercury and Mars both retrograde, the ghosts of holidays past will indeed be afoot! We will be remembering great traditions of another time as well as faces and places that speak of honor to our ancestors. The practical Capricorn Sun encourages us as it beams off and on the Moon to prepare and finish up the last bit of business before 2010 rings in!